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Tuesday, February 17, 2009

一廂情願的幫忙

在上兩個星期,我的朋友和他的女朋友有了糾紛。

原本以爲出自好意,可以勸一勸女方不要太過偏激以導致雙方反目成仇,一發不可收拾。怎麽知道原來問題的根本早已存在,而且已經蔓延至嚴重到不能由外人來相勸的地步。因爲我多此一舉的舉動,反而更令到我的朋友爲難。所以感覺有點虧欠於他,真得非常抱歉。

從這件事我了解到原來一廂情願的幫助只是會使關心的朋友更難做。反之,不多做反而是幫助了他。都怪我雞婆,帶給別人的麻煩不少。

我的好朋友,給你添了麻煩,真的很抱歉。也希望你可以儘快解決你們那場糾紛,畢竟拖泥帶水也不是辦法。

3 Comments:

Blogger Why_Spy_Love said...

Well... We do need to learn from experience. Being a friend we shoudd be able to know that some things we can comment and some cant. I am still learning and no one cant be perfect but I hope I can become a better friend to all. Let your friends be at they are, it might be for the best in this situation.

6:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well, i guess we all had some experience of making things worst by trying to help- The difference is knowing when a person needs help and when he prefers to deal with it by himself, well, especially private matters and relationship issues. What i do is i usually ask the person, just to be sure. But as for your friend, he should be at least grateful that you care and tried to help him, so don't be too hard on your self-you are alot better than those "friends" who doesn't really care about anything that does not benefit them and only mind their own business. You are a lovely friend to have my dear, so stop feeling bad about it:)

-Liyen.

11:24 PM  
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