I found out that negative pull is very much stronger than the positive pull. Maybe it's always easier to be the bad guys, compared to the good ones; just like a chinese sayings that goes: 學好三年，學壞三天。
I am just exploring on the idea further. Examples:
- Good intention to trouble shoot (+) & lousy customer care from support (-) = -ve
- Scolded by superior (-) & motivated to work harder to avoid further scolding (+) = -ve
- Superb idea to move a project (+) & red tape with slow procedural processing (-) = -ve
It's not that easy to be part of the society to be so full of the negative elements. It's just the way of life. It's not always the perfect system that academics trying to search for. It's just .... life, always unfair and impartial at times too.
Of course, I am not denying there are some positives around, but these pulls are just not that strong enough to give it a push! It's like fighting an oncoming tide, the stronger you push, the more hurt you get. Flow with the wave, then everybody wins! How ironic!